Beverly Lewis, Author
Laura Nikiel, Illustrator
Bethany House Publishers, Fiction, 2007
Suitable for: Ages 4 and up
Themes: Appreciating a sibling with special needs, embarrassment, teasing, acceptance, friendship.
Opening/Synopsis: Every day I walk my brother to his bus at the corner. It’s not far, but it takes a long time because Jesse gets distracted by things like rain puddles, honeysuckle blossoms, and even ladybugs — which bugs me a lot.” Allie walks with her older brother, Jesse, to the school bus stop every morning and endures his distractions, and the teasing and giggling of the other kids waiting for the bus. She wonders to herself “Why didn’t I get a regular brother?” She loves Jesse, but is frustrated and tired of being embarrassed by him. Allie feels terrible about her feelings. One day Jesse meets Allie and tells her to put on his large shoes and instructs her to “do what Jesse does.” Allie follows Jessie and discovers the wonders of his world that she has not noticed. That day changes Alli forever.
Why I like this book: Beverly Lewis has written a story with a powerful message about acceptance for children. I like that she told the story from Allie’s viewpoint. Laura Nikiel’s illustrations are bright, colorful and filled with expression. There are many children who have a sibling with a special need. Like Allie, siblings deal with emotions ranging from love to embarrassment. It’s important that they have a way to express how they feel to someone who will listen. Beverly Lewis comes up with a very creative way of helping Allie see life as Jesse does. This is a good book for home or at school. Activity: Have students discuss what it means to “walk in someone else’s shoes” before you read the book. Encourage them think of examples of people to share. After you read the book, have each child write a letter to Jesse to tell him what they learned from his story.
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