Pride Month, June 2020
My Maddy
Gayle Pitman, Author
Violet Tobacco, Illustrator
Magination Press, Fiction, May 25, 2020
Suitable for ages: 4-8
Themes: Parent and Child, Gender Diverse Families, Love
Opening: “Most mommies are girls. Most daddies are boys. But lot of parents are neither a boy nor a girl. Like my Maddy.”
Synopsis:
My Maddy has hazel eyes which are not brown or green. And my Maddy likes sporks because they are not quite a spoon or a fork. And she gets up early to watch the sunrise because it’s not day and it’s not night. And she loves rainbows because the most beautiful things happen between the rain and the sun.
Some of the best things in the world are not one thing or the other. They are something in between and entirely their own.
Randall Ehrbar, PsyD, offers an insightful note with more information about parents who are members of gender minority communities, including transgender, gender non-binary, or otherwise gender diverse people.
Why I like this book:
Gayle Pitman has written a celebratory book about parenthood that is both hearwarming and informative. Look at that gorgeous cover filled with an abundance of love, joy and rainbow pride. It is so inspiring, as is the text which is filled with positive images and concepts of one’s family. Violet Tobacco’s illustrations are a vibrant and magical.
Gayle Pitman creates a parent who is blend between Mommy and Daddy, and gives the parent a name inbetween — Maddy. I didn’t realize that Maddy is often times used in some families to describe a parent who is transgender or gender diverse. Pitman subtly portrays an ordinary and loving relationship between the girl and her parent, emphasizing that a parent can be a little bit of both, like many things in nature.
This is a story that many children will be able to relate to, and will be a welcomed addition to any school or public library.
Resources: The Note to Readers is a great resource for parents, teachers and caregivers. It not only includes additional information about gender diverse parents, but also highlights the importance of parents letting their child know through words and actions, that no matter what, they are still the child’s parent. There are tips in discussing gender identity with a child. And the it encourages families to include the children in choosing a new name or nickname for a parent.
What a beautiful concept. Many families would add this book to their shelves.
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It is such an inspiring book for all families.
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Thanks for sharing!
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Fabulous, Pat. I have been waiting to get this out to the library when it reopens. I love Gayle’s books. Great Pride Month choice.
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I thought it was a perfect release for Pride Month. It is such an uplifting book full of love. You’ll love the artwork!
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I have never heard the name “Maddy” but it’s absolutely perfect. What a great book choice to share with us this Perfect Picture Book Friday! Thank you.
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I was so excited to share this book as it is so inspiring. Everything about it speaks to loving family relationships. Perfect for Pride Month!
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Great choice! I love the title and that awesome cover.
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I loved the joyful cover and the story. I learned something new!
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I’m glad this book is out in the world. I look forward to finding it.
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Me too! Gayle Pitman really wrote a treasure for families. Gorgeous illustrations!
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Wonderful choice, Patricia! I can’t wait to read this one. We need more books that thoughtfully illustrate gender diversity.
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The author thoughtfully crafted this story and it shines!
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This looks incredible; I’m instantly hooked by the cover! What a great scout you are; diversity titles are SO important to us and our future.
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I agree with you about diversity titles important to our future. This book stands out!
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Wow! This book sounds great! What wonderful metaphors for gender diversity! Looking forward to reading this one.
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Everything about this book is inspiring and joyful. It will be so helpful to children to have gender diverse parents.
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I know a diverse family with a three year old who would love this book. I’ll forward a link to your review for them. Thanks for finding this gem.
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Thanks Greg! I loved everything about this beautiful book. The message is so beautiful, as are the illustrations!
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I do like the sound of this book, Patricia. It has an important place on many shelves and in many hearts.
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Such an uplifting story about a child’s relationship with a gender diverse parent — all told from the POV of the child. It belongs in every classroom. Gorgeous book!
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I think there are many who would agree with you.
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This sounds like a wonderful picture book! It’s great that families like the one in the book get to have this representation. Thanks for the great review!
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We need more inspiring stories for gender diverse families. MY MADDY is an outstanding book for families.
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